ARE AMERICAN MEN SPINELESS?
HAVE THEY LOST THEIR BACKBONE?
SURVEY FOR MEN
Directions : As a man, read the survey statements below, think about your spouse/partner and select the best answer from these three:
- Yes : I largely agree most or all the time
- Undecided : I sometimes agree and sometimes disagree
- No : I largely disagree most or all the time
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1. I often say or think "my wife won’t let me."
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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2. I have lost many of my friends because I am regularly disallowed to spend time with them.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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3. I often feel powerless to say no to my spouse/mate.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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4. In order to avoid conflict, I am often reluctant to voice my opinion to my partner.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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5. I think if I do voice my opinion, I will likely get a firestorm or pushback from her.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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6. I often think that if I over-accommodate her, I will finally please her.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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7. She seems to think that pleasing me and/or treating me well is somehow demeaning to her.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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8. I often think I must over-accommodate her to get her to quit nagging.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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9. She regularly is disapproving of me, and it seems regardless what I do or say, it is wrong.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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10. I often tolerate and/or enable her to over-spend.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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11. She often shows disrespect and/or indifference to me.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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12. She has lost interest in sex, and refrains from initiating it with me.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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13. She has paid less attention to her appearance since we got together.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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14. She appears reluctant to participate in what I like to do.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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15. She seems to only be interested in what she likes.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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16. I feel unimportant to her.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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17. Her children, friends and/or career seem more important to her than I am.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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18. She seems only interested in what I can do and/or provide for her.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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19. I feel used by her.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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20. When I am around her, I have turned into someone I dislike.
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Yes :
Undecided :
No
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Comments
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Demographics
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Ethnicity
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Status
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Married :
Single :
Divorced
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Parent
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Yes :
No
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Age
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Education
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Email Address
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